Yesterday I had once again a conversation about the alleged habit of Westerners to take a shower in the morning.
I was surprised when, a few years ago, a Chinese friend asked me for the first time the question: "Do Western people really take a shower in the morning?" I had never thought about this before. But apparently, a lot of Chinese/ Taiwanese notice (and disapprove of) this habit.
When you live with a Chinese family (which could for example be your girlfriend's/boyfriend's family) you might have noticed that they are not very happy with your going to bed without taking a shower or bath first. It seems as though they considered it disgusting, and they wish you had brought your own bed sheets.
First of all, I don't think every Westerner takes a shower in the morning. I guess it depends on the person and the mood. I, for example, usually take a shower in the morning, but when it's hot outside, I prefer to take a shower immediately after coming back home in the evening. I have no clear rule, just rely on my feeling. Basically, I think it's nice to go out and start a day still fresh from a shower. On the web, some Taiwanese have described this as "äøēØ®ē¦®č²" (a way to be polite), though I have some doubts if this is the right way of explaining it.
One of the reasons why Asian people might take a shower in the evening is something that quite surprised me. In Europe, I usually change my bed sheets once a week, in the summer even twice a week. So, I had never thought in my whole life that I should take a shower in the evening in order not to make the bed sheets dirty. But apparently, Chinese/Taiwanese tend to keep the same bed sheets for a long time. Even for months (that's what I've observed, but I might be wrong). I wonder if this could be one reason why they avoid going to bed without having taken a shower first. To be honest, I feel very uncomfortable with having the same bed sheet for so long...
I was surprised when, a few years ago, a Chinese friend asked me for the first time the question: "Do Western people really take a shower in the morning?" I had never thought about this before. But apparently, a lot of Chinese/ Taiwanese notice (and disapprove of) this habit.
When you live with a Chinese family (which could for example be your girlfriend's/boyfriend's family) you might have noticed that they are not very happy with your going to bed without taking a shower or bath first. It seems as though they considered it disgusting, and they wish you had brought your own bed sheets.
First of all, I don't think every Westerner takes a shower in the morning. I guess it depends on the person and the mood. I, for example, usually take a shower in the morning, but when it's hot outside, I prefer to take a shower immediately after coming back home in the evening. I have no clear rule, just rely on my feeling. Basically, I think it's nice to go out and start a day still fresh from a shower. On the web, some Taiwanese have described this as "äøēØ®ē¦®č²" (a way to be polite), though I have some doubts if this is the right way of explaining it.
One of the reasons why Asian people might take a shower in the evening is something that quite surprised me. In Europe, I usually change my bed sheets once a week, in the summer even twice a week. So, I had never thought in my whole life that I should take a shower in the evening in order not to make the bed sheets dirty. But apparently, Chinese/Taiwanese tend to keep the same bed sheets for a long time. Even for months (that's what I've observed, but I might be wrong). I wonder if this could be one reason why they avoid going to bed without having taken a shower first. To be honest, I feel very uncomfortable with having the same bed sheet for so long...
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Ha interesting. I have the same question in mind too.
ReplyDeleteI just feel it more comfortable to sleep in a clean bed in clean clothes. The bed sheets are clean even we don't wash it for months as we usually avoid putting dirty stuff(like bags or street clothes)on them.
Hello Rice: ) I think that both taking a shower in the evening and in the morning is okay. I never thought it was a big issue until Chinese people made to me the remark that it is strange to take a shower in the morning.
ReplyDeletePersonally, during the summer I take a shower in the evening and and mostly also in the morning. But in the winter I usually take a shower only in the morning. However, I prefer to wash the bed sheets quite often, because to me they are like clothes that simply need to be washed.
I think people take a shower in the evening because their parents did.
ReplyDeleteI, myself tend to take a shower both in the morning and in the evening.
Climate is a huge factor too. When I used to live in Taiwan, I couldn't even fall asleep without showering since I'm sweaty and sticky after a whole day exposed in the heat and humidity of the subtropical climate. Now that I live in the US, I can comfortably go to bed at night without showering and start my day with a shower since it's drier here. Sometimes, not showering for just 1 day doesn't feel that bad, but I recall in Taiwan, it was UNBEARABLE!
ReplyDeleteHey Aris, your Chinese is awesome! How long did it take you to learn to write/speak so well? I'm enjoying reading your insight about Taiwan and will be sharing your blog with my partner as we are thinking about going to Taiwan for a year next year (I was born there but left since I was 10 yrs old)
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